AG Bell Counselor, Ms. Conley
COUNSELOR’S CORNER
October 2008
The job of parenting our children is no doubt the most important one that we have. From time to time, I will be sharing parenting tips and information with you in the Chimes. I hope that you will find them interesting and informative.
The following information comes from a parenting website in British Columbia.
Self-esteem and confidence are very important factors in children's progress at school. A child who is generally confident and who has high self-esteem is more likely to ask questions, participate actively, express ideas, and take on new challenges.
Here are some suggestions help your child to grow in confidence and self-esteem:
· Help your child to set realistic goals and then support them in achieving those goals.
· Give your child responsibility and chores at their level at home, and don't forget to thank them and to compliment them on a job well done.
· Let you child know when you are proud of them and say so.
· Let your child be the "family expert" on subjects that interest them.
· As much as possible, provide a range of different enriching experiences for your child. These don't have to be expensive – a simple nature walk can be a great experience.
· Tell friends and relatives about your child's achievements and positive qualities, and let your child overhear.
· Make time for your child in your busy days and give them the gift of your undivided attention, if even just for a few minutes per day.
· Set clear boundaries and expectations for your child. This provides a sense of security and lets them know that you care enough to be consistent and clear.
Leave encouraging notes or letters for your child.
Happy October!
Pat Conley
Counselor
425.822.7450X10